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Downs recommends silicone packers because they last longer and they are easier to clean (silicone can be boiled to sterilize it, which is easy as hell).
It won't make it look like you have a massive erection, but it also has a bendable core inside, making it rigid enough for penetrative sex (aka "hard packing").The first question you might have at this point (other than "all of the questions") is "why would anyone want to do that?" To answer that, I asked Chelsea Downs, 31, co-founder of New York Toy Collective, who said her customers enjoy packing for a variety of reasons, from playing around with the idea of gender, to modifying their gender expression, to helping them cope with gender dysphoria (people who have significant distress about their sex and gender).The emotional attachment, if any, is individual."Jackie, 50, executive vice president of Good Vibrations, loves packing because it makes her feel "instantly sexual," saying, "I am a transgender butch dyke, so there is a visceral connection to packing a dildo and thereby having a cock.Not only does it ramp up the charge for me sexually, it also serves to center and focus my feelings of being a transmasculine queer woman." Basically, anyone and everyone can and might be packing.